I sometimes tell people that it is possible to know a lot about a girl without engaging in a serious conversation with them. There is a lot you can gather about a girl by engaging in a few conversations or meeting them in person. You will agree with this, won’t you?
How about if I say you can know everything about a girl without talking with her or engaging in any kind of conversation whatsoever with her? This is where it becomes impossible to believe but as you read through this post, you will see how you can know practically everything you need to know about a girl you like before you even have the chance to talk with her.
Historically, potential suitors who are interested in a lady try out several ways of getting enough information about a girl they are interested in marrying. These include asking close friends and finding out from random people who may have encountered the girl and probably know a little about the girl’s attitude. These are good and recommended sources of information but they can be sometimes deceitful. A close friend or relative may be biased in their opinion about the girl for whatever reasons; the same holds true for a random person who may also not even have as much information about the girl.
First impression matters! Even though first impressions may not be the truest reflection of a person’s attitude, character and abilities, they can influence someone’s judgment about you. How then can you know so much about a girl after some ‘first impressions’ without engaging in a conversation with her?
It is important to know that there are good reasons why you need to be able to know about a girl you are interested in without talking with her. It demonstrates a high level of experience and maturity to be able to pick out subtle signs from someone you are interested in. It saves you the stress of potential issues that may arise later. Hence, you need to know if the girl you are interested in matches what you are looking for in a woman even before engaging in a conversation with her.
It is possible to know everything you need to know about a girl without talking with her; at least to a good extent. Some of the things you need to know about the girl include her personality type, character (respect, humility), orientation about marriage and sex, religious ideas and position, financial knowledge and orientation, morals as well as readiness for marriage or relationship, etc. These are core things to look out for if you are really interested in marrying her.
How to Know Everything You Need to Know About a Girl Without Talking to Her
An important question you might still have is how possible it is to know everything about a girl without talking with her. I already spelt out a few essential things to look out for in her moments after setting your eyes on her. Whether you agree that you can know everything you need to know about a girl without talking with her or not, at least you can know how beautiful she is without doing the same. However, the emphasis here will be on how to know as much as you need to know about a girl without talking with her. Here are some ways:
1. Pay attention to her age
Age matters a lot when it comes to knowing about a girl. Whereas maturity is not always about age, age directly relates to a girl’s level of experience with life, relationships and knowledge about marriage. Commonly, older girls are more in tune with the requirements of marriage and relationships but this is not a hard and fast rule.
The first thing you should try to observe about a girl when you see is how old she can be. Age does not always tell on the looks; people can look older or younger than their age. Therefore, it is expected that your prediction s about her age may be wrong most times but it can give you a rough idea of how ready she is for a relationship or marriage.
Younger girls (age not specified because of disparity in race and country) may also have clear ambitions to fulfil before they get married or get serious about a relationship. These could be academic, personal development, or simply because they want to explore singleness a little more. In any case, if you understand a girl’s age, there is a lot you can deduce about her.
Fun fact: Most young girls below 21 in Africa have often not experienced enough to make them emotionally ready for marriage. Don’t waste your time if you are in for a serious relationship or marriage.
2. Study how she projects her body image
Girls who are emotionally mature and ready for marriage have a characteristic way of projecting their body image. They exude confidence mixed with openness as they walk past you. They try not to make themselves too common; in other words, they make you see that they are not cheap but they do not appear proud and inaccessible at the same time. When you see a girl who makes herself inaccessible in the process, it could mean that she is not ready for a serious relationship or she already has a boyfriend.
How does a girl appear inaccessible? How does she respond to random people when they talk to her or ask her a question? It is pretty easy for a girl to appear inaccessible. When she ignores any attempt to sustain a conversation or when she avoids physical contact altogether.
It is also important that some girls might play a ‘class difference game’. This means she might project an image that says that she is open to people of only a certain class or level of affluence, but not open to people below that standard. These are also things you can learn about a girl without even talking with her.
3. Pay attention to how she interacts with people around her
If you want to know a respectful or humble girl, you don’t do this by first telling her that you love her and want to marry her. You know about her respectful character from the way she relates with other people around her. It is easy for girls or anyone to feign respect and humility before if they want to keep you but those behaviours they put on when they are unsuspecting are golden when it comes to knowing about the girl.
You may have to study her from a distance and probably ask someone close to her. The way she treats people, talk to them, respect them and her openness to other people’s opinion are close to how she will behave toward you too when you succeed in getting her to wife.
Some behaviours are turnoffs for individual people while others are universal turnoffs – that is, red flags for almost everyone. These universal turnoffs include lack of respect, haughtiness, etc. However, it is important that you first determine what your own red flag signs are because what may detest A may interest B. It’s about knowing what you personally want in your woman and want you can tolerate it or not.
4. Listen to her choice of words
When you are like a girl, she would automatically begin to notice after the first few times you meet with her, even though you have not officially talked with her yet. If she likes you too, she would begin to adjust her body and behaviour when she is around you. But prior to this time, you can learn a lot about her if you listen carefully to her choice of words. A very religious woman talks differently from a more secular woman talks. Not as if there is anything wrong with either of them but again, it’s about what you want as a person.
You can also know her level of respect or submission by listening to her choice of words when she talks with other people. Submissive girls try not to escalate words as much as possible. Non-submissive girls who throw tantrums immediately after hearing someone say something they don’t quite agree with are often not ready to be controlled. Looks like a universal red flag sign to flee for your dear life.
5. Observe how she dresses
Knowing about a girl without talking with her is another area the statement, “You are addressed by how you are dressed”, applies. Your dressing speaks a lot about your lifestyle, your sexual orientation, preferences and exposure, and your conservativeness and assertiveness.
Quite often, a girl who dresses differently from the prevailing dressing trends is more conservative or non-conforming, until proven otherwise. These girls are often more strong-willed about life. A girl who dresses shabbily without much respect for her body – either by not dressing beautifully or over-exposing her body is either not emotionally ready for a relationship or she is not ready for commitment, respectively.
Knowing About a Girl Without Talking With Her: Can it Replace a Good Conversation?
If you have several opportunities to meet or see this dream girl of yours, you can afford to keep mute while observing the above things about her. But if you accidentally stumbled across her, or there are chances that you might not see her again, you should consider letting the cat out of the bag as soon as possible.
The best way to know about someone is by having conversations with them and spending time with them In this case, getting closer to your dream girl and talking more often is the best way you can know everything you need to know about her. The simple reason why you also need to learn how to know about a girl before talking with her is for you to have a baseline from which to act; to have an overview if she is someone you would like.
Things You Cannot Know or Confirm About a Girl Without Asking Her or Talking With Her
- You cannot confirm her virginity status from the size of her hips or boobs: Contrary to what many guys think, you cannot know for sure if a girl is a virgin or not from the size of her hips or boobs. Some guys think that girls with a well-rounded hip and full breasts have lost their virginity. This is not scientific and only based on gross generalization or assumption.
- You cannot be hundred per cent sure she has a serious boyfriend if you don’t talk with her.
- You cannot fully know if she will agree to your proposal or reject you without knowing her closer and conversing with her severally.
How Ignorance of These Tips Makes Some Girls To Miss Potential Suitors
There are exceptions to every rule; these ways to know everything about a girl without talking with her are not exempted. Many times, the signs picked by the guy can be erroneous or affected by some other external factors – maybe the girl is not in her right frame of mind at the time of observing her, and the like. However, there are times some girls have ignorantly driven off potential suitors because they do not know that their characters can be observed and given an interpretation.
At such times, the meaning their actions and behaviours conveyed was totally different from what they meant or stand for. The ignorance of these tips about how a girl’s actions, words and appearance has robbed several girls of the guy they truly liked because they were not sending the right signals across. Hence, the need for any girl to master her body well enough to convey the right message to a girl who she likes and who is also interested in her.
You saw the possibility of knowing all you need to know about a girl without talking with her, and how to achieve that. However, this cannot replace actual conversations, dates and meetups with the girl of your dreams.