How To Make Your Man Sexually Interested In You

Here are some reasons your man is losing sexual interests in you and what you can do.

Are you worried that your boyfriend or husband is no longer drawn to you sexually like he used to? He used to be a ferocious beast when it comes to sex but these days, it appears that certain things have changed about him, even though you just can’t figure out what exactly.

Several things could account for his sexual coldness towards you. In this post, I will show you all those factors and how you can make him become sexually interested in you again. Every time you want to have sex with him, try these things to get him in the game.

Let’s begin with what to do to get him sexually interested in you.

Man and woman in a sexual position
Sexual interests in a man for the woman in white.

How To Make Your Man Sexually Interested In You

Try these if you want to instantly arouse your man’s sexual desires towards you.

1. Wear seducing clothes

One of the best ways to arouse your man’s sexual interest is by seducing him. He is your man, so you have nothing to fear. Dress to show your best features he loves about you. Wear a sleeveless dress held on to your shoulders by two arm strings, and let it reveal parts of your breasts and upper back. Slightly remove one of the string supports holding the dress to the should and slowly walk past him in the home.

2. Acts seductively

Again, you want him to see the physical features he loves about you. After wearing a seducing dress, you also need to act on it. Make gestures that make him see those features well enough without having eye contact with him. Smile softly and walk majestically while making sure he sees that part of your body that makes him uncomfortable. Arch your back in front of him while wearing your light shape-highlighting dress, and if the children are away, take off any undies or wear very light ones, at least.

3. Give him flattering compliments

Letting yourself up without too much constraint is one sure way to let your man know that you are in the mood. Do and say those words you don’t get to say on a normal day. Flatter him with compliments and praise him seductively. As you shower praises on him, make sure you hint to him about the way he powerfully handles you in bed. I am sure you can find a way to express that.

4. Address any unresolved conflicts

One of the reasons your man will not be interested in sex with you is if there is an unresolved conflict. This is not the time to play the victim or ignore the event waiting for him to forget. You should apologize to him if you think you are wrong. He too will do the same when you do. It is common to find couples who lapse into a beautiful sexual experience after such apologies.

5. Make your hair

Studies and experiments have shown that hair is an important seductive part of the body to most men. Make your hair, especially if your man loves hair. Visit the hair salon and get your hair done. You don’t want to seduce your man with unkempt hair.

6. Sing and dance for him

Singing and/or dancing is not something you do every day, and that is what makes it special. When you sing and dance, you set the atmosphere for happiness and peace. Your female voice can ring a bell in his ears, particularly since it is not about angry outbursts this time. As you dance, also make sure to accentuate those body features he loves about you.

7. Send him your most beautiful pictures when he is away

There is no better way to remind your man about you and the sexual escapades he has had with you than sending him beautiful photos of you. Even when he is away from home, take new beautiful pictures and send them to him. When he sees how beautiful you look, he will long to come back to you for some action.

8. Welcome him with his best meal

If he calls you that he is coming home, know that he is hungry. He is not only hungry for food but also for sex with you. From the moment go, you need to set the stage for a beautiful experience both of you will never forget. As he enters the house, welcome him with the aroma of his best meal, dress seductively as discussed, and speak flirtatiously with your entire body. Remember, the way to a man’s heart is through his mouth.

9. Find out why he is sexually drawn away

If you have done the things above and he still does not have sexual interests at the time, find out why he is behaving that way. You may be surprised to know that there are underlying reasons why he is sexually uninterested.

This takes us to the reasons why your man may be uninterested in sex.

Reasons Your Man Lacks Interest in Sex

1. He is stressed

Stress is a common reason why a man would not be interested in sex with his partner. Stress can divert one’s attention from the things that would give one pleasure and happiness. It can also lead to reduced libido and erectile dysfunction.

2. He is unhappy with the relationship

As mentioned, one common reason why your man may become uninterested in sex with you is if there are unresolved disputes or misunderstandings in the relationship. As a human, he is not always going to take responsibility for everything, and sometimes he is going to express his unhappiness. Even if he has always been the one coming to settle things, there are times you should take responsibility and apologize too.

3. He has performance anxiety

Performance anxiety is another common reason why a man would be afraid to have sex with you even if he is legitimately allowed to do so. Performance anxiety comes from his desire to satisfy you when he thinks is unable to perform well in bed or satisfy you enough.

4. He feels unwanted or unappreciated

I have talked about the Hero Instinct, a natural desire in men to feel wanted, needed, and heroic. By treating your man with respect and not like a slave with no choices in the home, he is happier to satisfy you in bed.

5. He is getting his needs taken care of elsewhere

This is one of the first reasons that come to many people’s minds. It’s always the main reason for a man’s disinterestedness in sex with you but it is a possibility. And it doesn’t necessarily mean he is sleeping around with other women; he could be addicted to masturbation or pornography.

6. He is depressed

Experiences at work can get your man depressed. If you are going to have his full action in bed with you, you have to find a way to elevate his mood and make him forget the depressing experiences he probably had during the day.

7. He has a medical issue

Medical conditions like hypertension and diabetes have been shown to affect sexual performance and libido in men. If a man has any of these conditions, that can be the reason for his disinterestedness in sex with his woman.

8. He already has what he wanted

This applies to a man who you are not married to. Many men would begin to move away from you after they have had sex with you because they now think they already have what they want. The withdrawal becomes even worse when they think you want something serious out of the relationship but they don’t.

9. Sexual deprival

If you have been depriving him of sex persistently, a point comes when he starts losing interest in you. If that continues, your sexual advances will make you feel like you only want to satisfy yourself and not to satisfy him too.

Signs He Is Not Interested In You Sexually

  1. He no longer asks for sex.
  2. He is not easily attracted by your seductions as usual.
  3. He is not easily aroused by you.
  4. He visits you less often if he is away.
  5. He does not hold and touch you the way he used to.

Final words

If your man has been lovey-dovey but recently started getting sexually cold towards you, these are some reasons why that is so and how you can get him on with you again.

I am a medical doctor, a seasoned writer and passionate blogger. Thanks to many years of trials, failure, and near successes. I am the founder of Knowseeker and our content are geared towards enlightening and making you a better and happier audience.

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